Women Can't Multitask Either

Pretty much nobody can. So get your eyes back on the road, and PUT THE PHONE DOWN! ...ahem...

This is a wonderful infographic on the effects of "multitasking." (Did you see the quotes? Yeah. That's 'cuz it's a myth.)

"Focusing on more than one thing decreases your productivity by 40% and lowers your IQ by 10 points"

Link: http://mashable.com/2012/08/13/multitasking-infographic/

We need not fear wanting

This really resonates with me. I know so many people who are determined to stuff down or push away any and all desires in the name of being spiritual. Seems to me that wanting is part of being human, and any spirituality worth its salt would have room for humanity to be...well, human.

"if we push away desire, we disconnect from our tenderness and we harden against life. We become like a “rock in winter.” When we reject desire, we reject the very source of our love and aliveness."

link: http://www.wildmind.org/blogs/on-practice/the-suffering-of-rejecting-desire

The Mingling of Grief and Joy

Closure is such a pervasive concept in our society. The assertion that it really doesn't exist and that we should stop chasing it really rings true to me. At the same time, I find in myself a deep longing for the grief to go away leaving only joy. I suppose that's closely akin to the fantasy of a life without problems, work, or traffic.

The blurb: Nancy Berns is a sociologist at Drake University. She looks at the space between grief and closure and has found that not only is closure a fabricated concept, it is doing us more harm than good.

Link: http://youtu.be/w0rCfXSdYPE